1. Be Assertive
This is not the time to be shy. Be direct and ask her out with confidence. Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants.
2. Avoid Labels
Don’t make references to her as a “cougar.” Many women still find the term offensive.
3. Ignore the Age Gap
You’re just stating the obvious, and she’s well aware that she’s older.
4. Take it Slow
Sure, the sex is hotter than any you’ve had before. But get to know her outside the bedroom, too. Ask her what she likes. Then follow through. She’ll want you as much as you want her.
5. Work For It
A mature woman has seen (and heard) it all, so she won’t be moved by childish words. Do what you say you’re going to do, and always mean what you say. Otherwise, she’ll hit “delete.”
Today’s cougars aren’t passive, but they are popular, thanks to TV shows like Cougar Town. Female cougars always on the hunt for new prey.