Whether you're planning a first date or a fiftieth, these sexy holiday ideas will ring both your jingle bells!
Whether you're planning a first date or a fiftieth we've got sexy ideas that will ring both your jingle bells.
The cold weather that encourages cuddling, the freely flowing cocktails, the joyful, festive feeling in the air……the week between Christmas and New Year’s was just made for sexy and romantic interludes. Whether you’re planning a first date with a holiday hottie or looking for ways to celebrate another year together with your favorite girl we’ve got sexy holiday date ideas that will ring both your jingle bells.
Go outside and do something physical to get your heart rates up and your adrenaline pumping. Suggest you try snowboarding, snowshoeing, ice skating, or sledding. Even better if it's a sport she's not so skilled at—that means plenty of excuses for her to grab onto you or for you to hold her from behind and show her how it's done. And odds are all that outdoor exertion will lead to a little indoor activity...if you know what we mean!
Women love guys who bake,” says Pepper Schwartz, PhD, sociology professor at the University of Washington and coauthor of The Normal Bar. Give it a try. Invite her over to bake holiday sugar or gingerbread cookies together. And don't worry if they don't end up tasting great or if you burn them to a crisp, she'll still be turned on by your effort. To add a sexy twist dare each other to decorate them in a way that's naughty. Nice!
Does anybody know what the hell is actually in a hot toddy? Probably not but what we do know is that a belly full of warm liquor is sure to put a girl in a touchy-feely, snuggly kind of mood. Make a list of local bars that are serving up seasonal specialties then hop from venue to venue taste-testing a variety of holiday fare.
The holiday season is the perfect time to kick back, get silly, and feel like a kid again. A recent study in the American Journal of Play found that women rate “sense of humor”, “fun loving”, and “playfulness” as the top three traits they look for in a guy. Show her you don’t take yourself that seriously—queue up A Christmas Story or Christmas Vacation, go out in the snow to build a fort or challenge her to a snowball fight, or head for the mall and take a funny pic with Santa. Whatever you do, as long as you both laugh your asses off, consider it a huge step toward winning her over.
They say ‘tis better to give then to get’. Put your needs aside for a change and focus all the attention on her. Start by lighting some candles, turning on some sexy tunes, and giving her a sensual massage. The more you take your time, the more turned on she’ll be when you finally take it to the next level. “Focus on teasing,” says Schwartz, and for example go super-slow when you reach her inner thigh. As things heat up let her know you want to please her. Ask her to tell you what turns her on and ask her what feels best as you work your way over her body. Experiment, leave no area untouched and you’ll make a holiday memory neither of you will ever forget.
The cold weather that encourages cuddling, the freely flowing cocktails, the joyful, festive feeling in the air……the week between Christmas and New Year’s was just made for sexy