It always seems like Valentine’s Day is all about fulfilling her fantasies. You know the ones: roses, chocolates, heart-felt Hallmark cards. But what about your fantasies? From scandalous girls you should date to sexscapades you’ll never forget, here are 10 things you should do before you die. If you play your cards right, maybe you can check one off of your list this Feb 14th.
The fantasy of having a three-way usually tops the list of men's fantasies, but a full-on ménage-à-trois might not be realistic for you and your partner. “Role-playing and fantasy games are great first-steps, but if you want to up the ante, visit a strip club together and share an erotic moment with one of their dancers,” says sexologist Jessica O’Reilly, Ph. D., author of the forthcoming Hot Sex Tips, Tricks & Licks.
Come on. We know it’s your fantasy. And a cramped cabin bathroom is no excuse—find a way (or a position) to make airplane sex work, because it’ll be well worth the effort. According to O’Reilly, you'll dream about it for years to come—and the stress of customs, immigration and general travel will never be the same.
Sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D. is adamant that “every guy should date a stripper, sex-worker, porn star, webcam girl, etc. at least once.” Why, you ask? You’ll find out what it's like to be with a sexual wild woman—and maybe even learn a few things from her in the process.
Face it: At some point in the future you will probably find a woman you love, marry her—and never sleep with another woman again. Before that time comes, you must have a one night stand. This is not a suggestion—it is an order. One-night stands offer the kind of spontaneous, unadulterated, no-strings-attached sex you’ll never get from a woman you’re dating or married to. And here’s proof it’s a worthwhile bucket-list item: a study out of Durham University in the UK concluded that four out of five men felt “more content, sexually satisfied and confident” after a casual sexual encounter.
